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Cyber Monday Dangers: 7 Signs Your Child is Being “Groomed” for Trafficking, Sexploitation, or Worse

As we all jump on the Cyber Monday shopping frenzy, it’s a great time to remind parents, teachers, and caregivers of how to protect kids from unwittingly getting caught up with nefarious actors leveraging the season. The dangers of the digital age extend beyond screens and into the very real world of human trafficking, child exploitation, and sextortion.

One of these is online grooming, a method predators use to manipulate children into exploitative situations, often leading to severe and lasting consequences. It is a silent epidemic that acts as a gateway to more heinous crimes, including human trafficking, where children can be coerced into forced labor or sexual exploitation, and sextortion, where individuals are blackmailed with explicit content, often begins with grooming tactics. The importance of recognizing the signs of online grooming cannot be overstated, as it is often the first step in a cascade of exploitation that can have devastating effects on a child’s well-being and safety.

These signs include:

Secrecy About Online Activities: If a child is unusually secretive about their devices or online accounts, it could be cause for concern.

Behavioral Changes: Any significant changes in a child’s mood, behavior, or habits should be monitored, especially if they become withdrawn or exhibit unexplained mood swings.

Receiving Unusual Gifts or Messages: If a child receives gifts or money from unknown sources or gets messages from unfamiliar people, this warrants further investigation.

Increased Online Time: An increase in online time, particularly at odd hours, may suggest that a child is engaged in covert communication.

Mention of an Older Friend: A child talking about a new, significantly older friend should prompt gentle questioning to understand the nature of this relationship.

Reluctance to Discuss Online Friends: Defensiveness or reluctance when discussing online interactions could be a red flag.

Adult Language or Knowledge: If a child uses language or discusses topics that are not age-appropriate, especially regarding sexual matters, it may be an indicator of grooming.

While these signs do not definitively mean a child is being groomed, they are important indicators for parents to initiate further conversation and monitoring.

To protect children, parents can take several proactive steps:

Foster Open Communication: Create an environment where children feel comfortable sharing their online experiences and concerns.

Educate: The parent and child should be knowledgeable about the digital platforms used, and children should be taught safe online practices.

Establish Boundaries: Set rules for internet use, like keeping devices in common areas, and consider using parental controls while respecting the child’s appropriate level of privacy.

Offer Support: Assure children that they will not be punished for bringing up concerns, reinforcing that parental involvement is for their protection.

If grooming or inappropriate behavior is suspected, it’s crucial to:

Document Evidence: Record any suspicious activity and report it to the appropriate authorities.

Preserve Communication: Do not delete the suspect’s account or communications. Instead, use a separate device to document the information to avoid alerting the suspect.

The responsibility to protect children in an increasingly connected world is collective. While the Internet offers many opportunities for learning and connection, it also presents significant risks. Parents, educators, and guardians must equip themselves with the knowledge and tools to spot the warning signs of online grooming and engage in open and honest dialogues with their children about the potential dangers. The goal is not to instill fear but to empower children with the confidence to navigate the digital world safely and with a critical eye. It’s about creating a partnership with our children built on trust and mutual respect while never losing sight of our role as protectors. Together, by being proactive and involved, we can form the first line of defense against the digital threats of human trafficking, child exploitation, and sextortion.

Kevin Metcalf
Kevin Metcalf
Deputy Prosecuting Attorney Kevin Metcalf of the 4th Judicial District of Arkansas is founder of the National Child Protection Task Force (NCPTF). Kevin has helped countless agencies identify and apprehend sexual predators and recover children.

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